Talking About Advance Directives
The document is the easy part. The conversation with your family is what makes it work.
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What to know
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Have the conversation when everyone is healthy — not in a hospital waiting room.
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Be specific: what would 'a meaningful quality of life' look like to you?
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Talk separately with the person you name as healthcare agent — they need to know your values, not just check boxes.
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Revisit every few years and after any major health event.
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Make sure copies are with your doctor, your hospital, your agent, and on your fridge.
Frequently asked questions
What is an advance directive?+
An advance directive is a written statement of your wishes about medical treatment if you cannot speak for yourself. It usually includes a living will and a healthcare power of attorney.
Who should I name as my healthcare agent?+
Someone who knows your values, will follow your wishes even under pressure, can stay calm in a hospital setting, and is reachable in an emergency. It does not have to be a spouse or oldest child.
Where should copies be kept?+
Give copies to your healthcare agent, primary doctor, and hospital. Keep one on your refrigerator for paramedics. A copy in a safe-deposit box alone is not enough — no one can reach it in a crisis.
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